February 11, 2015

Rob, 29, looking for someone friendly, easy going and isn’t scared of a little adventure

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January 23, 2015

How To Keep Your Casual Relationship Going

Nowadays, a casual sex relationship has become more popular to those who are not ready to settle down. You can actually become single whilst having a certain kind of relationship with someone. You can be friends with a person whilst enjoying an added benefit. This is to have sex and satisfy your sexual cravings without committing yourselves to each other. This kind of relationship will become successful if the two of you understand and follow the rules. However, as good as it may seem, it is also possible to encounter some issues. How do you keep this relationship going?

Make an agreement. Before starting a relationship like this, you must make sure that you can come up with an agreement. This will also ensure that you are on the same page. You need to discuss the rules properly so that everything is clear for the both of you. You can talk about how the relationship should start and how it should end. Make each other understand that being in a casual relationship is only temporary. Be clear about the dos and don’ts in your relationship. You will be able to save yourself from future problems if the labels are clear. The success of the relationship lies on your agreement.

Be firm with the rules. It is not enough to only talk about the agreement. You also have to create specific rules that should be observed while you are both in the relationship. The rules should include the basics about a casual sex relationship. For instance, you are not allowed to develop feelings for each other. It is good to make a list of these rules so that you can be guided accordingly. You can include other rules such as when you can spend time with each other.

Abide by the rules. This involves not getting emotional and affectionate. You need to be careful when it comes to spending time with the other person, as this may be a factor that develops attachment. Always remind yourself about your agreement and abide by the rules. Be mindful about your behavior. The bottom line is to keep everything casual.

Maintain your distance. This does not mean that you are only going to see each other once a month. It really depends on your agreement. However, when it comes to physical contact and getting your feelings involved, you must always maintain your distance. Physical contact is unavoidable during sexual intercourse; nevertheless, you must leave right away after satisfying yourselves to make sure there is no place for intimate moments. Maintaining your distance also means giving top priority to your personal space.

Enjoy your relationship. One of the most important things that you should be kept in mind whilst in a casual relationship is to have fun and enjoy it. That way, you will never regret anything and the relationship will become more worthwhile. Remember that there is no reason for you to take things seriously. This kind of relationship is not meant to be critical or momentous.

Honesty is the best policy. When it comes to casual sex relationships, honest is important as well. The other person has the right to know the state of your mind and feelings. You should immediately tell the other person if something has changed. This way, you can decide to make the relationship serious or to finally say goodbye.

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December 25, 2014

Friends with Benefits Scenario

Have you ever thought about being in a casual sex relationship? This kind of relationship is also known as “friends with benefits”. However, before making decisions, you may need to have a good view about the whole scenario of being in this kind of relationship. Moreover, you need to realize whether you can handle not getting attached emotionally whilst being able to satisfy your sexual needs. In addition, you need to look for the right guy who can agree with the rules and who fits your ideals to be your “friend”.

Being friends with benefits seems appealing to many because there are no demands to meet. Men are often better when it comes to maintaining a casual relationship as their body and mind works differently compared to women. Due to this, they can keep up with the rules of the “no strings attached” kind of relationship. They can separate their own emotions from sex. On the other hand, it is a different case for women who are more into attachments and being intimate. For instance, men usually view sex as just a physical action whilst women may look at the act as making love. Can you keep yourself from being emotionally attached? Remember that a casual sex is entirely different from a one-night stand. You are not only going to have sex for fun but to satisfy your sexual needs for a certain amount of time. This means that you are going to maintain a certain kind of relationship or agreement for a long term.

Conflicts may occur with casual sex relationships because you spend some time together. Due to this, it can be difficult to control your feelings and avoid becoming attached. The situation may have an overwhelming twist if you are not careful. In relation to this, you need to be prepared and know how to handle the situation the moment it becomes complicated. You should also know the factors that can get you into trouble. Recognizing the signs that you are falling in love with the other person is also significant.

Not all casual sex relationships work and end happily. They are also prone to a lot of problems. There is no guarantee that you will be able to avoid getting hurt just because your relationship is casual and you are not committed to each other. A simple physical contact may trigger your hormones and make you realize that you are romantically attached. The moment you think that you do not want to be away from him then you know you are already in trouble. Remember that being friends with benefits is only temporary. Do not expect this relationship to end as a serious one.

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November 25, 2014

Genuine and fun loving person

My friends know me as an honest, young at heart, genuine and fun loving person who has a great sense of humour. I’m a mum to 2 grown up daughters who both live away from home. I enjoy spending time with family, going out for drinks or a meal with friends, watching sport either live or on TV and going the cinema. I’m just as comfortable staying in cooking or curled up watching a DVD at home, but would love to share my time with someone new. I am looking for someone for friendship, maybe turning into something more. Having been a loyal, caring, loving and supporting partner and wife for 34 years, I now find myself here.My ideal match would be an honest and genuine person who has similar interests and family values, yet also able to make the compromises that life sometimes requires. No smokers please. So if you think this description fits you and you fancy getting to know me more, then I would love to hear from you!

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November 24, 2014

Why Women Get in Trouble with Casual Relationships

Women have a disadvantage when it comes to engaging themselves in a casual sex. This is because their hormones work differently compared with the opposite sex. Due to this, a woman can get into trouble easily and may find it difficult to control their feelings. For men, it is easier for them to get up and leave right away after having sex. As for women, sex may mean more. It is also enough for a man to be able to perform well in bed, make the woman happy and then leave right away. On the other hand, women may experience a little connection or bond even when it is just casual sex. A woman may also seek more from simple physical contact whilst having sex.

However, all of the things that happen in a woman whilst in a casual sex relationship are completely normal. This is how a woman’s body is made. The behavior and reactions that may occur are natural. Due to this, you need to consider all the possibilities. Do not deny the fact that you may fall in love with the other person even though it is not allowed. Due to this, you may need to exert more effort into controlling your emotions and abiding by the rules. You also need to fully understand your agreement. On the other hand, you have to be honest with yourself and be responsible for your own emotions.

A man is more able to move on and leave whenever the situation becomes more complicated. They do not have the difficulty to decide and end the relationship when there is a need to. There are women who find it difficult to detach themselves from the people whenever the emotions are already involved.

One important factor that gets a woman in trouble with casual sex is the hormones. This is a chemical which is majorly present in a woman’s body. It affects the behavior and feelings. This hormone is evident when a woman gives birth to a baby. In case of a casual relationship, even without the involvement of a child, this chemical occurs whilst spending time with someone who you are physically attracted to. This way, it can be difficult to maintain things on a casual level. In addition to this, the hormone, which is called oxytocin, will intensify the feeling.

However, you should not let these factors stop you from enjoying the benefits of being in a casual sex relationship. Anyone has the right to be friends with benefits as long as you know the rules. You should also be prepared when things change and remember to always think twice before making decisions.

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November 18, 2014

To meet the love of my life

I have joined up for one reason and that’s to meet the love of my life….with all the future happiness, commitment and unsteady times that come with it. I want someone to take care of me whilst I’m taking care of them. :) I have my dreams and not looking to get my bubble burst, so no to players and time wasters please. Oh and I’m all for a bit of mystery, but I wont be having any converations with a ‘toy face’ for a profile picture…sorry that’s just not cricket…ask yourself the question……would you?!?  I am an easy going friendly person who enjoys meeting new people and trying new things. I love music and have been to many concerts (should have my own box at the 02)! I enjoy my career and love spending time with my family too (both my children are grown up)! I would like to meet an honest, caring and fun individual with whom I can enjoy spending quality time with and get to know better.

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October 21, 2014

Thinking About Casual Relationships

Having a casual sex relationship with a person is definitely a good idea for someone who is not into a romantic and serious relationship. However, you may need a good understanding of the rules to keep it going. You should know how to control your feelings to avoid getting attached to the other person. Remember that a casual relationship is something that is more than a one night stand. You should keep yourself from having romantic feelings toward the person even if it means spending some time with them and having sex. It can be a good idea in the beginning but once you jump into it without really realizing if it is for you, you are bound to get yourself into trouble.

What is the advantage of a casual sex relationship?

Casual sex relationships are for people who are just having a good time and finding someone who can satisfy their sexual needs without involving emotions and commitment. This is also the main advantage in this kind of relationship. A casual relationship is less stressful and demanding. It is only a short-term connection with someone. It is all about having fun without worrying about anything else. Being friends with benefits needs you to separate your emotions from sex.

Casual Sex Between Men and Women

Men and women look at sex differently. Women are more prone to developing feelings for their “friends”. Women’s hormones play an important role in this issue. On the other hand, men find this kind of relationship easier to manage. This is because they see a casual relationship just how it should be and nothing more. He may strive to please you in the bed whilst enjoying the moment at the same time but it is all about the sex. He can immediately leave you right away after satisfying himself. He is most likely to avoid prolonged physical contact to prevent intimate moments. This is how men see things when it comes to casual sex relationships. As with a woman, she may find a different level of joy and excitement with the relationship which may become a disadvantage later on. For instance, you may ask more from your usual routine of casual hookup. It is easy to develop emotional attachment even though it is just casual sex.

It is fine to have one night stands but casual sex relationships are a completely different matter. You can still get hurt if you are not careful. Spending time together means increasing your chance of falling in love with the other person even when you are not allowed to. When that happens, there is nothing more you can do but end the relationship right away before things get very complicated.

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October 13, 2014

Looking for a quiet and nice relationship

I am a nice person, looking for a quiet and nice relationship. I love my stressful job, so, the time I have to relax I want to be used in full. Going out (park) if time permits it, or watching a nice movie or a game, seeing friends, or traveling (I like traveling, this is probably one of the reasons I love by job in travel), or just a nice relaxing evening with a nice food and glass of wine. I also like to go to the gym. I like sports play and watch.I have 2 children (a daughter just finished college and a son, 11th grade), not living with me. I have been thinking for some time to register to a dating site. I will see if it helps. I am amazed how many people are alone. I know that some are just “hunting”, but some find really difficult to find a normal relationship. I hope I will find mine. I have been alone for quite a while, now I have more time for myself and I intend to use it.

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October 6, 2014

Caring and sharing easy going attitude

Blonde , petite build and 5ft 4″ Country lover rather than city slicker. not ready to join the blue rinse brigaide just yet.It would be nice to enjoy again a nice cosy relationship where caring and sharing with a significant other is important, being quite a homebird I don’t seek a hectic social scene, afterall ive been tucked away in a marriage for years , but if you are with the right person for you then compromise can be an easy thing. New to late life dating…and like a good percentage im probably going to be pretty uncomfortable with it ..but hey.. sometimes you have to venture outside of the box.!My photos are very recent and not 10 years out of date and its hard to smile when doing a selfie…but rest assured I am a smiler.I seek a man who is attractive, owns his own home, has a nice comfortable lifestyle like myself., trendy ish , generous, honest and with a caring and sharing easy going attitude.I definately wont be interested in a toyboy looking for his Mrs Robinson or misers (Sorry but this one was added for the guy that takes you out and sits there for 3 hours on 1 drink!!! ), .

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September 29, 2014

Attracted to ‘interesting’ men

Vivacious,amusing,intelligent….’interesting’!! Petite – small but curvy – with curly (wild?!) red hair. I’m friendly and out-going. Funny (in my opinion!), open and warm. I have various interests (as they say) – socialising, reading, writing, cinema, music etc. Enjoy discussions – definitely have a mind of my own (but willing to learn!!!) Enjoy almost anything or anywhere with the right people.I’m caring and supportive, And I love affection – giving and receiving.I’m attracted to ‘interesting’ men, maybe a little unconventional, — humourous (hopefully,a bit) and definitely caring.. Honesty is important and it works both ways. I don’t want perfection (it’s boring!)…. and I expect baggage (who doesn’t have it at our age?!).I’m interested in meeting a man who is looking for a long-term relationship – a man who wants a, lover and a friend….someone who enjoys sharing – experiences, emotions, affection….Please only contact me if you have a photo and a profile. Thanks!

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